sex

Anorgasmic, frigid, dysfunctional: all the words I’d attached to myself over decades no longer applied.

My husband and I have always had great sex, but non-monogamy made our sex life even better.

After my divorce, I started to view sex differently: as a way to fall back in love with my body, stand proudly in my queerness and finally explore guilt-free pleasure.

Remember: it’s all about *feeling* sexy, not “looking sexy.” So first: get comfortable with your body and have fun in it.

An MD’s science-backed guide to ending a dry spell.