After my divorce, I started to view sex differently: as a way to fall back in love with my body, stand proudly in my queerness and finally explore guilt&#x2d;free pleasure.

I’m Having The Best Sex In My 40s

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Sex &amp; Relationships

My husband and I teeter dangerously close to the sexless marriage threshold. But at 39, I’m not willing to throw in the towel on my sex life.

The Case For Good&#x2d;Enough Sex

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3 Reasons You Have A Low Sex Drive

These unexpected culprits could be messing with your mojo.

3 Things You Didn’t Realize Might Be Killing Your Sex Drive

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