Why you should call it quits for good

If you're in an on-again, off-again relationship, you might want to go off again for good.

By Madeline Cravit

Updated November 2, 2012

Couple Sitting On Bench Overlooking Lake

Patricia Curi

If you're in an on-again, off-again relationship, you might want to go off again for good. A new study found that cyclical couples — who repeatedly get back together and break up — have higher rates of conflict, lower self-esteem and are less satisfied with their relationships.

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