Good vibes - Part II
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| Question of 3 A peek into your bedroom closet would reveal:
Pretty, cute and feminine You're ready to devote time and effort to exploring your sexual self, so you need a toy that fits your pretty and feminine style – phallic vibes just aren't for you. Ninety per cent of the time, women will buy a sex toy based on aesthetics, says Andrea Dobbs, retail manager of Womyn's Wear in Vancouver. If the toy reflects your personal style, you're going to want to use it more. Dobbs recommends shopping for a sex toy the same way you would a pair of shoes or a handbag.Pretty vibes for clit girls: With its small design and flower motif, the Nea ($120) is sweet and stylish. It also has a rechargeable battery and variable speeds – a feature the pros say is important in determining the level of vibration that works best for you.For her price-conscious customers, Venus Envy owner Shelley Taylor recommends starting with a small vibrator such as the pretty pink Mini-Pearl. It also has variable speeds and can give you a blissful buzz, but it's less of an investment at $20. "If a customer has never had a toy before, we suggest she doesn't spend a lot of money," says Dobbs. That way, you won't be disappointed if the toy isn't for you. A warning for clit girls: hard plastic toys can be noisy and will only get louder with use. If you're concerned about discretion, go incognito with the Rubba Duckie vibrator ($30). Added bonus: Duckie is fully waterproof – perfect for a little bath time fun. Pretty vibes for G-spot girls: This little guy is not only cute as a button, but his nose is designed to hit your G-spot dead on. Flipper G ($80) is 100 per cent silicone, has a quiet motor and is perfect for internal exploration. If a sweet creature like Flipper tugs at your heartstrings, snatch him up and take him home. The more attracted you are to a toy, says Dobbs, the more you're going to enjoy the experience. For first-time G-spot seekers, Lamon suggests something simple, such as the pretty Pink Jelly G ($24). It's got the shape and variable speeds you need for G-spot stimulation, but without the hefty price tag. "Everybody is different in terms of what they like," says Lamon. "You don't want to buy a $200 vibrator and then it doesn't work for you." Internal toys are great for discretion because softer materials absorb a lot of the sound. Taylor suggests the Fun Factory Munchkins ($70) – they're not specifically shaped to hit your G-spot, but these little guys are small enough to fit in your handbag and pack a powerful punch. They're also completely waterproof – perfect for private time in the bath. Pretty vibes for dual-action girls: Here it is, the vibe everyone's heard about – the Habit Rabbit ($120). It's the dual function, jelly vibrator that turned sweater set-wearing Charlotte from Sex and the City into a sex toy addict. Lamon calls the Rabbit a full-service toy: it stimulates the entrance to the vagina and the clitoris at the same time. If you're ready for an adventure in sensation, this vibe may be for you – the shaft rotates, the beads shift to stimulate the entrance of your vagina, and the bunny ears vibrate to stimulate your clitoris.Chic, sleek and sexy You're ready to devote time and effort exploring your sexual self, so you need a toy that fits your sleek and sexy style – cutesy pink bunnies just aren't for you. Ninety per cent of the time, women will buy a sex toy based on aesthetics, says Andrea Dobbs. If the toy reflects your personal style, you're going to want to use it more – even show it off! Dobbs recommends shopping for a sex toy the same way you would a pair of shoes or a handbag.Sexy vibes for clit girls: The Lilly is very haute couture, says Dobbs of this little clit vibe. The sleek design makes the Lilly ($210) the powersuit of vibrators. It also has a rechargeable battery and variable speeds – a feature the pros say is important in determining the level of vibration that works best for you.For her price-conscious customers, Taylor recommends starting with a classic vibrator such as the sexy Kitty. It also has variable speeds and vibrates with a low-pitched purr, but this friendly feline is less of an investment at $30. "If a customer has never had a toy before, we suggest she doesn't spend a lot of money on something," says Dobbs. That way, you won't be disappointed if the toy isn't for you. Sexy vibes for G-spot girls: "The Ecco has very soft, flowing lines, but it's kind of funky" says Dobbs. The spiral ribs and smooth, sleek finish make the silicone Ecco ($80) a super-sexy toy. It doesn't have a curved tip, but this vibe's texture can provide some G-spot stimulation. And there's no need to worry about wearing it out – instead of a motor, it's powered by a tiny removable vibrator, which can easily be replaced.For first-time G-spot seekers, Lamon suggests something simple, such as the Jr. Jelly G ($22). It's got the shape and variable speeds you need for G-spot stimulation, but without the hefty price tag. Internal toys are great for discretion because softer materials absorb a lot of the sound. Shelley Taylor, owner of the Venus Envy sex shops in Ottawa and Halifax, suggests the Fun Factory Munchkins ($70) – they're not specifically shaped to hit your G-spot, but these little guys are small enough to fit in your handbag and pack a powerful punch. They're also completely waterproof – perfect for private time in the bath. Sexy vibes for dual-action girls: Most dual-action vibes come complete with a cutesy little critter to stimulate your clit. But if that funny bunny kind of creeps you out, the Mermaid ($130) might be more your speed. This sexy vibe has a sleek shape, comes in grown-up colours (red and teal) and will stimulate both your clitoris and vagina.Sporty, spunky and funky You're ready to devote time and effort to exploring your sexual self, so you need a toy that fits your sporty, tomboy style – cutesy pink bunnies and over-the-top leopard print just aren't for you. Ninety percent of the time, women will buy a sex toy based on aesthetics, says Andrea Dobbs, retail manager of Womyn's Wear in Vancouver. If the toy reflects your personal style, you're going to want to use it more – even show it off. Dobbs recommends shopping for a sex toy the same way you would a pair of shoes or a handbag.Sporty vibes for clit girls: "The Lava Spot is super cool. It's like a little smart car," says Dobbs of this clit vibe. The ergonomic design is sleek and easy to hold – it even looks like a bike handle. The Lava Spot ($80) is completely waterproof and has a quiet vibration, and the control panel lights up for glow-in-the-dark fun.On the lower end of the price spectrum, Gallant and Lamon both recommend Splash ($28) as a good starter vibe. This bathing beauty is completely waterproof, gives a blissful buzz and won't break the bank. A warning for clit girls: hard plastic toys can be noisy and will only get louder with use. If you're concerned about discretion, go incognito with Water Dancer ($34). This vibe is completely waterproof, small enough to throw in your backpack and perfect for your active lifestyle – the Good For Her website recommends this vibe for camping trips. Sporty vibes for G-spot girls: The silicone G-Swirl ($80) is Gallant's pick for a hard-working G-spot vibe. The sporty look doesn't scream porn star, and the high-quality motor makes for a quiet vibration.For first-time G-spot seekers, Lamon suggests something simple, such as the Jr. Jelly G ($22). It's got the shape and variable speeds you need for G-spot stimulation, but without the hefty price tag. "Everybody is different in terms of what they like," says Lamon. "You don't want to buy a $200 vibrator and then it doesn't work for you." Internal toys are great for discretion because softer materials absorb a lot of the sound. Shelley Taylor, owner of the Venus Envy sex shops in Ottawa and Halifax, suggests the Fun Factory Munchkins ($70) – they're not specifically shaped to hit your G-spot, but these little guys are small enough to fit in your handbag and pack a powerful punch. They're also completely waterproof – perfect for private time in the bath. Sporty vibes for dual-action girls: "This is a totally unpopular toy, but I think it's the best thing ever because the vibrator is separate," says Lamon of the dual-action Crystal Twin ($130). It's definitely not a cutesy bunny, but you're not a cutesy girl – and this toy really can do it all. The separate vibrator solves the problem of lining up the toy with your body, and you can use it to zero in on your clit for stimulation where you want it. You can even use the little vibe buddy for anal play – if you're feeling adventurous. | |||||||||||||||||||
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Clean your vibrator after each use with warm water and mild body soap. Silicone can be boiled to sterilize between uses – just don't forget to take out the batteries first!
If you want to use a toy for anal play, always put a condom on it. Never go directly from anus to vagina without sterilizing the toy or changing the condom. Always make sure the toy has a flared base for anal use – losing a toy up there could lead to a very embarrassing night in the emergency room.
If you're sharing your toy, take care – a vibrator can spread the same STIs as the human body. If you use condoms with your partner, use them on the toy as well.
| Where to shop: These female-friendly websites take the sleaze factor out of shopping for sex toys. Just pick your pleasure and they'll ship it right to your door. If you need more help, you can also call their toll-free numbers to speak to a sex toy expert one on one. |
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