relationships

After decades of thinking I needed to find The One, I realized I’ve known her my entire life.

It’s never too late to change your life.

In 2009 the stars aligned for Chef Victor Barry when he bought a restaurant and met the love of his life, Nikki. Just after having their second child, Nikki got news that turned their world upside down.

Embracing non-monogamy has meant I’ve started to appreciate the roles everyone plays in my life (sexy British guy included), and to allow them to inhabit those roles fully.

Online dating as a poly has taught me about 'unicorns,' the value of communication, and what I really want in life.