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Is there a difference between marriage and common law?

Quebec passes a new law that could see common-law partners rushing to the altar.
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Living in sin, once the exclusive domain of the wicked or those with an “artistic” bent, is now so banal a social convention that it would fail to yield a raised eyebrow at a church picnic.

If you’re trying to shock your grandmother, you’re going to have to do better than shacking up -- chances are she’s living with her boyfriend.

Though common-law relationships have attained a certain unspoken cultural parity with marriage there is still a legal distinction to be made according to an article in the Globe and Mail, which focused on a recent ruling made by Canada’s highest court.

Quebec has decided that common-law couples who divorce are not entitled to the same claim on each other as married couples who decide to dissolve their unions.

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While divorcing spouses may claim child support in any case, spousal support is restricted to those with a wedding license regardless of the circumstances or the extent of the commitment.

A woman, for example, who lives with a man for two decades, elects to be a stay-at-home mom, raises their children, builds a home, frees him to pursue a career, fulfills all the obligations of wife, mother and support is entitled to zero compensation if a split occurs.

Ironically, according to the Globe and Mail piece, Quebec is the world’s biggest love-nest and has more common-law arrangements than any place else -- at least one-third of all cohabiting couples have potentially put themselves at risk financially by failing to tie the knot legally.

Whether there will be a sudden mad rush to the altar in Quebec remains to be seen -- for those who oppose marriage on philosophical or intellectual grounds, such an outcome’s not likely. Many common-law couples may elect to make private arrangements that take into account the possibility of a failed union.

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For others, many of whom may want to get married but are just going along to get along, Beyonce’s admonition to “put a ring on it" may have a whole new meaning.

Tell us, do you think people who are common law should have the same legal rights as those who are married?

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Flannery Dean is a writer based in Hamilton, Ont. She’s written for The Narwhal, the Globe and Mail and The Guardian

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